lspearman wrote:I totally agree with everything you said Catherine, I don't know anything about Jim except what I've seen and read online and from that I see he's just like the rest of us, he may be famous but he has feeling and fears just like we all do and just like the rest of us he's also had hard times what ever the case may be, and I think he's just looking to find true love with someone that he can be himself with that loves him and only him and understands none of us are perfect. I've had relationships like that myself that got to the point I felt like I needed blinders on because the person I was with would get upset if I even looked to the side while riding down the road and that person would be like do I need to turn around, that person was very good to me and wanted to marry me and when I couldn't decide which diamond ring I wanted he bought them both but none of that matters if we can't be our self and we can't live our life to make someone else happy we have to be happy our self life is short and will be over before we know it, I truly believe that if a relationship of any kind is to much trouble and or heartache it's probably not meant to be because I believe that the good lord the universe or what ever you believe in wants us to be happy not stressed or worried I'm sure he appreciates your post its not fair for people to be judging what they don't understand and even if he appears to be fine in public I'm sure he probably does worry if there was something he could have done to prevent her taking her own life but no I don't think there was anything he could have done and even if they were married if that's Jim's character to laugh and joke with other girls that would have always been a problem and it drags us down when we can't be our self if we are not our true self then who are we?
Much love to you all
omg so true
i just got out of a on and off marriage relashionship 13 years
i had to watch how i talked walked couldnt be myself
and when i was, i was told i was crazy..now that is an eye opener
we were two total opposites, i finnaly saw the light
when ever i was overly excited happy shout for joy, anything, i was put down, and he was not supportive of my dreams and goals, rather he was jealous and possesive, not healthy....instead of lifting one another up and supporting that person, sharing in there success it was the opposite, dont do this dont do that, this is bad,,bla bla..
you can never thrive in a situation like that, it actually will kill your spirit and soul, your heart and you will be no more....
and it actually affected my natrual personality. i started to stop feeling that natrual joy and becuase i knew i was comming home to someone who was never smiling never happy and always complaiing about life and his curcumstances....
so i realized i would rather be without anyone alone..than to be with someone who is bringing me down and stealing my joy.
i need that therapy and its been septemeber 23 till now...and yes i had to make sacrifices, sell my home now downsize, beucase of the income issues and all that ...
but happiness is worth far more than a pay check someone is handing you isnt it...
i dont care about the money, i had set my heart and mind straight and am determined to make it on my own with my 23 year old wonderful son who still with me ...
life can be so much more better, yes but im not putting my hopes up in anyway shape or form, im trusting the good lord, the universe, and as long as im honest, good hearted and do the right things...be kind and nice,,,which goes for everyone, which i know we all know here on this forum, that Jim is all that and a bag of naked Stacy chips and mroe...one day he will find true love,, just like in the Disney movies we used to watch when we were kids...one day he' will met the person will accept him for all the wonderful colorfull personalities that he has. one day, they will roll down the stairs and get right back up again and say...shall we do this backwards..now im crying....
we love you Jim if you ever read this, with or without the beard, we love ya..
we love that your flirty, and that you can be yourself with your public fans who love you
and we wish that you will find even if your not looking true love, honesty and sincerity..
amen..thats my wish...c im not a vegan anymore, finally eating chicken and fish..thought id add that part in...